Monday, August 31, 2009

Vivian Zabel, HERE TOMORROW!

That's right. Vivian Zabel, author and publisher at 4RV Publishing will be visiting with us tomorrow, September 1st, and then again on Thursday, September 3rd.

We'll have great information and advice on writing and publishing, so be sure to stop by.

Also, don't forget to take part in VBT - Writers on the Move Mystery Site Give-Away!

If you leave a comment on the mystery host's site, you have a chance to WIN a great book or a one day guest spot on the VBT - Writers on the Move blogsite.

The September tour schedule is in the August 24th post at VBT - Writers on the Move.

Remember, nothing ventured, nothing gained! Stop on by.

Karen

Saturday, August 29, 2009

Back to School Basics for Teachers

Well, so much for summer break. The grind is just around the corner. Yeah, I know two months isn’t long enough, but hey, it’s pretty good. Start getting in gear to go back to the professional attire and mindset, early morning rising, and don’t forget to get your bladder in shape so that one daily visit to the rest room will be enough.

Okay, let’s go down the checklist for the things you’ll need to get prepared for the inevitable day:

1. Don’t forget to wait until the last minute to get your teacher supplies at the teacher store so you’ll have time to make an hour worth of phone calls while you’re waiting on line because all the other teachers waited for the last minute also.

2. Get started writing your lesson plans for the first couple of weeks, but don’t get too attached to them because you know they’ll change once you get in the swing of things.

3. Remember to agonize over picking that first day’s book that you’ll read to your class. Of course, they will be absolutely enthralled and give you 100% of their attention – they’ve been waiting all summer to have this book read to them.

4. Create a new schedule plan. No more beach days; no more waking up at 10am; no more having the use of a restroom ANY time of the day; no more use of the phone anytime of the day; no more eating whenever you want; and no more peace and quiet.

5. Start working today to get your body and mind prepared for 30 restless kids with different personalities, strengths and weakness; for 30 sets of parents with different personalities; for the school administration, and for your co-workers. Start building your strength, stamina, and inner resilience – you’re going to need it.

6. Get your mindset in order. Repeat the following mantra 100 – 1000 times a day:
My days in class will be productive and calm; my students will not affect my well-being; I will remember my teaching skills; my students are great and I love them; my students enjoy learning; all my students will pass the State tests with flying colors; my students’ parents are wonderful as is my school administration.

7. Calm your nerves. You will be able to teach again; you will be able to get back into your professional mode; you will be able to concentrate on what you’re doing.

8. Watch those late nights. Be sure to start at least a week before school and go to bed at a reasonable hour. You will definitely need your rest.

9. Mark the calendar: 180 working days to go until next summer’s vacation – let the countdown begin!

If you like this article, you may like the August 25th post: Back to School Countdown, just scroll down a bit!

Karen

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Interview with the Authors of The 5 Keys to the Great Life

On August 20th, I posted a review of The 5 Keys to the Great Life. To refresh your memory, here is the first paragraph:

The 5 Keys to the Great Life is unique in that it is written by a brother and sister team. Both authors have impressive credentials in their chosen fields of law, management, education, and psychology, combined. With the number of self-help books out there written by every Tom, Dick and Harry, it’s refreshing to read one from writers who actually have an educational background and job experience in the area they are advising others on. In addition to all this, they have both been through burdening health and family problems. These personal experiences provide them with additional insight into coping mechanisms and tools that they impart to the reader.

I found the book interesting and informative and sent the authors a few questions for an interview. The authors, Dr. Tomi Bryan and Dr. Jerry White, graciously responded with the following answers:

1. I enjoyed your book and found it interesting. I like the way you used Moonstruck, Po, and the Big Bang Theory shows to get your points across. What made you choose these three in particular?

First, we believed people would be able to relate to these examples. Second, a visual is so powerful and these entertainment mediums offered an exaggeration of the point we wanted to make. An exaggeration is the extreme of a behavior and so it provides a lot of space in which to see ourselves. Finally, humor was an integral part of these examples. Because laughing and a sense of humor is essential to the great life, these examples aligned with our philosophies.

2. In Chapter 6 you mention that you felt compelled to do it all because if you refused you might not be loved anymore. I’ve dealt with trauma and having to take care of others in my life, but I don’t think it was out of a need to be loved. I believe it was out of an innate sense of obligation and responsibility not to let loved ones down. Which do you think is the core reason for most people who care for others to the point of it affecting their health?

Many people who care for others are in the discipline we call Helpers. Helpers are notorious for not making themselves a priority. The result is Helpers most likely don’t eat right or don’t get enough exercise. They compromise their own health in pursuit of helping others. Our belief is that this unselfish behavior is borne out of the love of helping others, which includes an innate sense of obligation and responsibility.

3. Also, in Chapter 6, you reference coaching one’s self as a team leader would his team. Do you think the average person would be able to incorporate these types of strategies into their lives? As an example, within the family dynamics, there are times when an individual cannot distance himself from other family members.

We believe people can incorporate these strategies into their lives by courageously practicing them. Everything in life is a choice. Integrating these strategies is simply a choice to acknowledge that what I am doing is not working so I am going to try something different.

You are correct. There are times when we cannot physically distance ourselves from others. What we offer in the book is a mental strategy for distancing yourself. The challenge is to create mental boundaries through the use of the deflector shield, Aftertalk, or simply learning to say in your mind, “This person is no longer on my playing field and what they say doesn’t impact me.” These strategies require practice (because we have to start somewhere) so that they are integrated into how we operate. The more we use the strategies, the better we will be at using them.

4. In the book, you have many quotes from qualified individuals and also philosophies, which is your favorite quote or philosophy?

The book is rich with quotes and philosophies, making our answer tough to refine. The book’s basic premise is that systems thinking allows us to see any system, even in the midst of mass chaos. We use that premise to unveil the operating system of life, identify points of leverage for accelerated growth, and point to structural conflicts that may be limiting personal development. Because systems thinking is the framework on which our model hangs, it is the most influential philosophy; and thus, our favorite.

5. In the Introduction, I love the micro-wave analogy and your statement that, “…the great life is more of a crock-pot proposition." What do you think is the most important ingredient in the pot?

Ahhh… an answer we can agree on without debate: The Self. The Self is the center of the Great Life Model. It is essential to living the great life to understand the relationship between the Self and the other 5 dimensions of Family, Faith, Fun, Finances and Friends. If the Self is not understood, then transformation from who you are to who you can be can’t take place.

6. Will there be any more books by you and your brother?

Yes. We are collaborating on more material now.

7. Is there anything else you’d like to pass on to our readers?

Your great life is waiting. It is simple and you can do it. The instructions are waiting for you in The 5 Keys to the Great Life!

Thank you for the opportunity to provide these thoughts on our book! We appreciate it.

Thank you both for sharing with us.

You can get a copy of The 5 Keys to the Great Life at Amazon.com

If you'd like to read the entire review go to:

http://www.bookpleasures.com/websitepublisher/articles/948/1/The-5-Keys-to-the-Great-Life-Reviewed-by-Karen-Coiffi-Ventrice-Of-Bookpleasurescom/Page1.html


Talk to you soon,
Karen

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Back to School Countdown

Five, four, three, two…yup, it’s that time of year again, rising early, getting to school on time, homework, tests…yuck!

But you know, it’s not really that bad. If you’re prepared and get into the right mindset, that’s half the battle. Everything we have to do in life and come up against in life gives us two options: (1) put a positive or good spin on it, (2) dread it.

Since you have to do it anyway, you might as well opt for Option #1.

To get you started in the right direction, here is a list to help you get in gear for, “school time, school time, good ole golden rule time.”

The Do List:

1. Many teachers have lists of what you will need for your upcoming school year. Try to find out if your new teacher has one and how you can get a hold of it.

2. To avoid needed school items being sold out; have Mom or Dad let you do your shopping early.

3. Make sure to get the items that are actually listed. If the list says “one red pen” don’t come to class with a green or purple one.

4. At least a week before school starts, go to bed at the time you normally would on school nights. This will give your body a chance to get accustomed to waking and eating breakfast early. If you do this, your body and mind won’t scream at you that first school day morning, “Hey, are you crazy? Only roosters are up at this time!”

5. A week before that inevitable morning, start a new mantra (saying): “I will listen to my teacher. I will listen to my teacher. I will listen to my teacher.” You can say this 100 to 1000 times a day. Another useful mantra is: “I will be respectful to my teacher and classmates. I will be respectful to my teacher and classmates. I will be respectful to my teacher and classmates.” Either of these two mantras is fine.

6. Make sure to get to school on time and obey your school and classroom rules. Practice Rule #5 so this won’t be a problem.

7. If you are required to have your classroom items in class the first week of school – have them there the first week…having them at home doesn’t cut it. You have to actually bring them to class.

8. What about the reading you were to do over the summer? Did you do it? Well, if you didn’t, start today. It’s better to read a least one book than none. Did you know that anything you want to be, an astronaut, a doctor, a firefighter, a superhero, all require reading. Okay, not the superhero, that just takes a good imagination.

These 8 Do's should give you a jump start on a smooth new school year.

Now for the Don’ts:

1. Don’t ignore the Do list above!



Talk to you soon,
Karen

Monday, August 24, 2009

VBT - Writers on the Move September Tour

Another month has come and is just about gone, and that leads us to the September tour. The schedule is posted at: VBT - Writers on the Move. Stop on by and check it out.

We have a new addition to the Mystery Site Give-away: The winner will have a choice between the Mystery Site Host's book, or a guest spot on the VBT - Writers on the Move blogsite. For you authors out there this is a great opportunity.

Stop by our members' sites during the tour and leave a comment - you may be the WINNER!

Talk to you soon,
Karen

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Learn To Write for Children: 3 Basic Tools

We all know how difficult it is to break into the business of writing for children. Whether you write fiction or nonfiction, it is a tough business and can be overwhelming for those just starting out. While all writing must adhere to certain guidelines, writing for children has additional principles unique to its genre.

To start, the words used in children’s writing must be age appropriate. This may sound easy to do, but it can be a difficult task. There are also certain techniques and tricks used specifically in writing for children, such as the Core of Three, sentence structure, and the timeframe in which the story should occur when writing for young children. In addition, it’s essential to make sure your conflicts, storyline, and point of view are appropriate for the age group you’re writing for.

Along with this, there are general techniques for writing, such as adding sensory details, showing instead of telling, and creating an engaging story that hooks the reader right away, along with great dialogue and correct punctuation.

This is just the beginning though, there is also the business of editing your work, writing a winning query, and following submission guidelines; the list goes on and on.

But, don’t get discouraged, there is help. Here are three basic tools to get you started and guide you down the children’s writing path:

1. Children’s Writer’s WORD BOOK by Alijandra Mogilner is a great resource that provides word lists grouped by grades along with a thesaurus of listed words. This allows you to check a word in question to make sure it is appropriate for the age group you’re writing for. It also provides reading levels for synonyms. It’s a very useful tool and one that I use over and over.

2. Tricks of the Trade: Learn to Write for Children in Just 6 Weeks! e-course by the Children’s Writer’s Coaching Club creator and director, Suzanne Lieurance, is a gem for learning the ins and outs of writing for children. I have just about finished this course and can say with confidence that it’s worth every penny. It’s jammed packed with practical, easy to understand, and detailed information. It answers your questions and provides the necessary tools, tips and advice to guide you from the basics of writing for children (books and freelancing) to queries, submissions, networking and more.

The e-course has 6 individual lessons to get you on the road to writing for children and working toward having your work published. Each lesson has three parts with assignments and additional resources.

The Trick of the Trade e-course also includes a 2 month membership in the Children's Writers' Coaching Club. With this membership you have the opportunity to have your assignments professionally reviewed and critiqued by Lieurance or another published children's author on staff at the National Writing for Children Center each week. Lieurance is also including, as a special bonus, 4 additional instructional CDs with tips for freelance writers. With these perks this e-course package is a bargain.

Suzanne Lieurance has created a purposeful ‘writing for children’ road map. This road map eliminates any guess work or doubt – it provides step-by-step guided instructions to get you where you’re heading. Tricks of the Trade: You Can Learn to Write for Children in Just 6 Weeks! is a phenomenal writing navigational tool – it offers top notch writing instruction and guidance.

3. The Frugal Editor by award winning author and editor, Carolyn Howard-Johnson, is a useful book for any writing genre, including children’s. It is great resource that guides you through basic editing, to getting the most out of your Word program’s features, to providing samples of queries. The author provides great tips and advice that will have you saying, “Ah, so that’s how it’s done.”

I’ve invested in a number of books, courses and programs in writing and marketing, and know value when I see it; these products have a great deal of value for you as a writer, and they are definitely worth the cost.

I consider these three resources essential tools in my children’s writing tool belt. But, the most important aspect of creating a writing career is to actually begin. Remember, you can’t succeed if you don’t try. It takes that first step to start your journey, and that first step seems to be a huge stumbling block for many of us. Don’t let procrastination or fear stop you from moving forwardstart writing today!

Talk to you soon,
Karen

Saturday, August 15, 2009

VBT - Writers on the Move New Mystery Site Addition

In VBT - Writers on the Move's never ending goal to take it up a notch, we added a GREAT new option to the monthly Mystery Site Give-away: the winner can choose between a copy of the Mystery Site Host's book OR a One Day Guest Spot on the VBT blogsite where you can promote yourself and/or your book.

For you authors out there this is a great opportunity for visibility!

Each month, on the 1st and the 3rd, we post for our tour; and each month we have a different Mystery Site. Just visit during the tour and leave a comment on our members' sites and you may be the WINNER!

And, don't forget, you can be a part of our marketing/promotional group. To learn more about VBT - Writers on the Move you can email Karen at: karenrcfv@yahoo.com.
Please put "KR - VBT" in the subject box.

Talk to you soon,
Karen

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Sylvan Dell eBooks - FREE TRIAL OFFER with Absolutely NO Strings

I received an email the other day from Sylvan Dell Publishing; I have written reviews for two of their new books as a reviewer for BookPleasures.com. So, now I am on their mailing list. But I digress, I am thrilled at this opportunity (a FREE trial offer) and want to pass it along to you. Don't worry, it's a FREE trial and ends Oct. 31st. The ability to visit the free trial site ENDS 10/31/09.


They are providing 45 (YES 45!) of their children's books in ebook format
for teachers, parents, grandparents (you get the gist) to try out. I read two of them to my grandson yesterday. I am just so impressed by the offer and by the formatting - it's just like having the book in hand!

But, you'll get a better idea of what it's all about if you read a portion of the Press Release:

SaraDobie@SylvanDellPublishing.com
www.SylvanDellPublishing.com
Science and Math through Literature

Contact: Sara Dobie, Public Relations
SaraDobie@SylvanDellPublishing.com, 877-958-2600

SYLVAN DELL PUBLISHING

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
JULY 29, 2009


MOVE OVER KINDLE

Sylvan Dell’s innovative eBook format promises to improve reading speeds,
comprehension, and language learning skills

MT PLEASANT, SC - Sylvan Dell Publishing goes LIVE this week with its next generation eBook, proving the company represents “so much more than a picture book;” it represents a full-fledged campaign for literacy in America.

From Sylvan Dell publisher and co-founder Lee German: “These are the most technologically advanced eBooks in the world today, featuring Auto-Flip, Auto-Read, and Selectable Language. There is nothing even close to this on the market. Amazon/Kindle and Barnes & Noble eBooks are not even in the same category. I encourage parents and teachers to take a test-drive and see for themselves. Let the children play with these for a few weeks, and you’ll be amazed at their excitement and improved reading performance. For children wanting to learn a foreign language or ESOL families learning English, these are phenomenal tools.”

Below is a link to a 90-day trial of all 45 Sylvan Dell eBooks:
http://www.sylvandellpublishing.com/ebooktrials.php?e=MSBL9J
Code expiration date: 10/31/2009

For guided directions: http://www.sylvandellpublishing.com/documents/eBookOperatingInstructions.pdf

“Whether in Auto-Flip or Manual Mode, switch back and forth between English and Spanish text and audio (more language choices on the way) and remain on the same page,” said German. “With the addition of Auto-Flip and Auto-Read features, our Sylvan Dell eBooks are powerful literacy and language learning tools to complement our mission of teaching ‘Science and Math Through Literature.’”

To read the entire Press Release go to: Sara Dobie

I can't rave enough about this great offer. The eBook format is amazing and very easy to use. Click HERE right now to take advantage of this unbelievable Free Trial Offer.

Talk to you soon,
Karen

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

One Lovely Blog Award


Yesterday, I received a wonderful award from Lea Schizas at The Writing Jungle – the One Lovely Blog Award.

I have to say I was totally surprised and honored. I’m relatively new to the business of writing and promotion so being included among Donna McDine, Katie Hines, Nancy Famolari, and Carolyn Howard-Johnson is thrilling.

As Lea mentioned in her blog, “It’s truly touching when some acknowledges your work…” I feel the same way.

Now, as an awardee, I’m responsible to pay it forward. For those individuals I choose, just follow the instructions below.

The rules are simple:

1) Accept the award, and don’t forget to post a link back to the awarding person.
2) Pass the award on.
3) Notify the award winners.

Two people I would have immediately chosen for this award is Lea Schizas and Carolyn Howard-Johnson. These two ladies definitely inspire and motivate me. Lea always makes me laugh, and is always so helpful; I don’t know how she does all she does. And, Carolyn always goes above and beyond. In addition, they work tirelessly to put together the Muse Online Writers Conference and offer it for FREE! These are two women I certainly admire and trust.

Okay, now for my choices of the women who inspire and motivate me in some way:

Kathy Stemke: Kathy is someone I can say, I knew her when. I had the privilege of critiquing her mss. I knew she’d have no problem finding a publisher. Kathy is a talented writer and I’m happy to call her my friend. It’s great to watch Kathy become all she can be.

Helena Harper: I reviewed Helena’s book, Family and More – Enemies or Friends and greatly admire her writing. Helena is a wonderful writer and goes the extra mile. She reviewed my book and posted the review in numerous sites for me. I truly appreciate it.

Heather Paye: Heather is a new member to VBT – Writers on the Move and she is only 15. There is an expression that youth is wasted on the young; well, this isn’t true of Heather. She if the most enterprising, determined, and enthusiastic young person I’ve ever known. She jumped into our group with both feet and does a great job as a host and a participating member. I’m very impressed by Heather Paye and pleased to have her in our group.

Next, I award this to all the members of VBT – Writers on the Move. Each member is talented, and they each give of their time and put forth effort to promote the other members. Being part of a participating group that is ongoing takes commitment – these members definitely have what it takes. I’m honored to be part of this wonderful group and they each inspire and motivate me.

Karen

Monday, August 10, 2009

VBT - Writers on the Move's August 10th Viewpoint

Boy, does time go fast. The VBT - Writers on the Move's August Viewpoint was hosted yesterday by Stephen Tremp.

Stephen explains the importance of internal or external conflict for characters. I'm sure you know that without some form of conflict your reader may not take his/her little finger and turn that page. Well, Stephen explains the difference between internal and external conflicts and focuses on the utilitarianism conflict.

Find out what this type of conflict involves - and let us know how you would handle this type of situation. Go to: http://stephentremp.blogspot.com

Talk to you soon,
Karen

Sunday, August 9, 2009

Tricks of the Trade: Learn to Write for Children in Just 6 Weeks!

I’m back with another lesson overview for Tricks of the Trade: Learn to Write for Children in Just 6 Weeks! This time it’s for Lesson 5.

Part 1 of this lesson explains the importance of Networking. Never underestimate the power of networking, as Suzanne Lieurance conveys:

"Networking is important in all professions, but it’s VERY important in the world of children’s publishing. After you learn the basics of writing for children, and you develop your writing skills, it’s not so much WHAT you know as WHO you know that will help you gain more and better writing assignments."

This section goes on to list a number of worthwhile online forums and discussion groups such as The Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators. Once in these groups, it’s important to be an active member. This will increase your visibility and a good way to learn and even get leads to things you’re interested in.

Part 2 of Lesson 5 gives a heads-up on how to find writing assignments and how to get the game going with publishing credits. You will need this information because it is the foundation of your children’s writing career. Getting your first publishing credits is also important for any genre of writing you decide to conquer. In this lesson you’ll also learn how to monitor the articles you publish.

Next onto Part 3: Here you’re taught how to work along with editors. Suzanne includes 6 essential tips for creating an amble relationship with an editor. These tips are crucial to learn and adhere to if you intend to continue to do business with the editor.

As with each Lesson in the 6 week e-course, Lesson 5 has an assignment to help you move forward in your chosen career. Along with this, the lesson includes additional helpful online resources.

Writing is a tough business; writing for children is even tougher. Tricks of the Trade: Learn to Write for Children in Just 6 Weeks! gives you the guidelines and tools you’ll need to build your children’s writing business from the ground up.

I’ve invested in a number of courses and programs and now have the ability to know which will actually help and which I should pass on – Suzanne Lieurance’s Tricks of the Trade is a worthwhile and affordable e-course. Suzanne has the knowledge and experience to be a writing coach and teacher; she uses these qualifications to help YOU get going and get published.

Along with this practical and detailed e-course you get a 2 month membership in the Children's Writers' Coaching Club, so every person who purchases this course has the opportunity to have his/her assignments professionally reviewed and critiqued by Suzanne or another published children's author on staff at the National Writing for Children Center each week. And, as a special bonus you'll get 4 additional instructional CDs with tips for freelance writers.

Don’t sit on the sidelines – GET IN THE GAME with Tricks of the Trade!

Talk to you soon,
Karen

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

The Mother-in-Law’s Manual: Proven Strategies for Creating Healthy Relationships with Married Children


Title: The Mother-in-Law’s Manual: Proven Strategies for Creating Healthy Relationships with Married Children
Author: Susan Abel Lieberman, PH.D.
Genre: Nonfiction/Family Matters
Publisher: bright sky press
ISBN: 978-1933979410
Reviewer: Karen Cioffi for BookPleasures.com

The Mother-in-Law’s Manual is a wonderfully insightful and at times humorous advice manual for dealing with not only in-laws, but also other family members. Having recently seen a commercial for Monsters-in-Law, with Jennifer Lopez, it was refreshing to read a much more realistic portrayal of mother-in-laws, especially since I am one myself.

Lieberman’s first chapter explains that when our children are young we are afforded an abundance of advice from professionals such as Dr. Spock. But, when our children are grown, leave the nest and marry, we are left to fend for ourselves. Lieberman’s analogy for the marriage is: “They are moving to a new country that they will create together. Yes, we get territorial. Use my bill of rights. Celebrate my holidays. Serve my food. Even if we don’t see it like a competition, we are likely to consider each deviation a loss.”

Situations that never existed before are now ones that can cause hurt, sadness, and even anger, along with satisfaction and happiness. This book delves into all the emotions that come into play. The child who was once yours now belongs to someone else. The author alludes to the fact that this is more of an issue when it is your son and you are dealing with a daughter-in-law. But, whether son or daughter, the dynamics of the family change.

The Mother-in-Law’s Manual is jammed packed with bits and pieces of wisdom. One of my favorite gems comes right after the “10 most recommended rules” for mothers-in-law which are all the same, “Keep your mouth shut.” Lieberman cleverly explains: “Even if we could follow the rule(s) and not say one word that would be heard as contentious, judgmental, argumentative, or critical […] our children would still hear contentions, judgments, arguments, and criticisms.” As a mother and mother-in-law, these are words that ring true. At times it seems you just can’t win. I thought this section was so funny, I had to read it to my husband.

It is difficult to do justice to all the pearls of wisdom in this book. It explains not to fret over the small things, our perceptions and our intent matter, when not to offer advice, and so much more. It even considers the roles of grandparents, children’s relationships to aging parents, and the aging process itself as Lieberman coins as “zippy to droopy.” She even includes a glimpse of her relationship with her own mother, the frustrations and sometimes guilt that is inevitable when a parent reaches an old age or is ill. Having taken care of a quadriplegic mother my experiences are somewhat different, but in some aspects they are the same. When watching your parent age, you wonder if you’re looking at your future.

Lieberman’s efforts produced an impressive book that all family members should read. Her research involved interviews with as many mothers-in-law across the country and from different backgrounds as she could. She even interviewed a number of daughters-in-law and sons-in-law. Many of these interviews are in the book. Some of their stories/advice sounded familiar, others were surprising. But, they all brought another element of enlightenment. Adult children who read this, married or unmarried, will hopefully gain insight into their parents as not only Mom or Dad, but as individuals with a life of their own including hopes, needs and feelings.

One final gem from the book that struck a chord with me is in Chapter Ten: “I understand my children are not my friends, that our relationship is that unique connection between parent and child. But, there is a way in which we are candid and honest with close, old friends, yet show a carefulness, a respectfulness that can be forgotten with parents. As soon as we begin to feel superior to a friend, the nature of the friendship shifts.” Lieberman hit just about every nail on the head with The Mother-in-Law’s Manual. I give this book 5 Stars and highly recommend it.

About the author: Susan Abel Lieberman currently lives in Houston and works as an executive coach. She has written five books, including New Traditions: Redefining Celebrations for Today’s Family. The Mother-in-Law’s Manual springs from the realization that her assumption that anyone would be thrilled to have her for a mother-in-law was off base. Rather than accepting family tension, she put her skills as a researcher and an executive coach to work to improve the situation. Ordained as an interfaith minister, Lieberman also holds a master’s from Berkeley, and a Ph.D. from the University of Pittsburg. As a wife, mother, mother-in-law and grandmother, she is well-versed in the challenges presented by every stage of family life. The Mother-in-Law’s Manual brings her personal and professional insights together to help mothers-in-law everywhere start a new chapter in their family life.

Talk to you soon,
Karen Cioffi
http://www.dkvwriting4u.com
Reviewer for BookPleasures.com

Monday, August 3, 2009

Heather Paye, Part 2


We're back with Heather Paye for the 2nd part of our VBT - Writers on the Move tour. Today we have a number of questions that Heather happily answered for us. So, lets get to know this young author a little better:

You seem to be a very determined and confident young lady. Where do you think you get this from and does anything get you down?

I’d have to say I get my determination from a little bit of both of my parents.. My confidence probably comes from my mother as she is always encouraging me to do my best, and assures me that I am.

Does anything get me down?

Yes, there are a few things that get me down. Being a 15-year-old published author things are basically black and white, either people judge me and think that I am incapable of publishing a book, they’re jealous, some people even get to thinking that ANYONE can publish a book that it’s “so easy”. Other people are completely and utterly astonished, and happy for my achievements. So, it’s really black and white for me, there is no in between as an author, which can get quite frustrating. And so, I guess my answer is: people’s judgment of my age, and not my stories, or not my abilities really gets me down. And it really doesn’t sound like something too bad, but it can get really upsetting for me and people just close their eyes and refuse to believe anything. So, it’s hard.

Tell us a little about your family life.

Well, I have lived in Arizona my entire life, and I know this place like I know no other, and it will definitely always be my “home”. But right now, it’s 106 degrees, and I’m looking at the like for the next few weeks, probably more, plus 60% humidity, so right now I’d really like to be somewhere else, Montana maybe? *laughs* Other than the heat, Arizona is really a wonderful place to live, quiet and full of beautiful scenery.

I have always been homeschooled, along with my three other siblings. Right now I’m really starting to see how useful homeschooling can be with my writing career. Say, for instance, I would have to do a book signing early in the morning, being homeschooled I could do this book signing, and then I could complete my school work later in the day. So, it’s really convenient.

What’s a typical day for you?

Typical day… let’s see… I wake up around 8AM, check my emails and do all of my necessary work on the computer (I can’t say exactly, since it varies from day to day), I eat lunch and then complete my school work.. By this time, it’s usually around 3PM maybe, then I finish up my work on the computer (if necessary, which it usually is), I eat dinner and then go for my evening walk which also includes playing with my little brother. Then I use the rest of the night for my writing, editing, or reviewing, depending on which I need to do. Most of the time I’m multitasking, such as right now, I am typing on my laptop, playing with my iPod, and watching TV. Lol

When you told your parents you wanted to publish your book what was their initial response?

Well, it wasn’t quite as awkward as you make it sound. It was really just a gradual thing, I started writing, and my mom was reading over my shoulder, and I don’t remember her exact words, but it was something along the lines of me getting my book published, and it was mostly a jokingly, but I kept writing, I think I was about 10 years old then. But, what really caused my book that is currently published to be published was a contest that I entered it’s called NaNoWriMo, you may have heard of it you may have not, it’s where you attempt to write a 50,000 word novel in one month’s time. And I managed to do just that, well, a few weeks after the contest; I found out that all winners received his or her first proof copy of their book for free if they use a certain publisher. So, I decided there to get my book self-published, I mean, why not?
So, I guess my answer to your question would be excitement, we were all excited.

I know you’re very involved with your writing, but what do you do for fun?
Watch movies, read, play video games, listen to music, and I would say play keyboard, but it recently broke, so right now I’m having piano withdrawals.

Who’s your favorite writer? And, what is your favorite genre?

My favorite writer, and my role model is definitely J.K.Rowling, with Nora Roberts coming up closely behind. My favorite genre is definitely fantasy, anything with drama, and a little bit of comedy, mild romance is good too; I have a wide variety of books that I like to read.

What advice would you give other young people who have a desire to write?

Read, Write, Research, Revise, Learn! READ a good variety of books, learn about what you like and what you don’t, it’s a rule that I’ve heard quite a few times myself, and it doesn’t require very much thinking, just read, it helps! WRITE what you know, and what you love, writing about a subject (fictional or non-fictional) that you don’t know about doesn’t work very well… ever.

RESEARCH good writing skills, publishers, publishing techniques, learn everything you can about publishing. It’s necessary, and it makes the process go a lot smoother if you don’t have any/many bad surprises, research anything and everything you can get your hands on, from writing, to publishing, revising, how to write query letters, how to market your book after it’s published, everything. REVISE everything you’ve written, I usually revise my work around 9 or 10 times, seriously, I know it sounds like a lot, but it is definitely necessary, I recommend a minimum of six rounds of editing. LEARN everything you can about grammar, keep it sharp. When I first started writing, I used no punctuation, I did not make paragraphs, and just about every word was misspelled. I worked to learn just about everything I could about writing a proper novel. I’m still learning proper writing even now, but look, I’m using punctuation, and nothing is misspelled. *laugh*

How has your personal faith and beliefs influenced your story?

Well, it might have slightly influenced my story, but not by very much I wouldn’t really say that it is a religious story, a lot of people assume that it is because of the title, “A Gift From Above” but it isn’t really. There is one scene with Celia (the main character) going to church. But, other than that, there isn’t anything else really religious in it. To be honest I’m not quite sure how to answer the question, I guess I would say, I’m a Christian and Celia is a Christian so that its self might have influenced the story. I’m not strongly religious though, so... yeah.

Do you have plans to go to college when you finish your high school courses? If so, what will you major in?

I’ll definitely be heading off to college. I get along really well with computers, so it’s only natural that I do something that they are involved in, my major of choice is game design.

Heather Paye
Student, Author, Dreamer

You can get your copy of A Gift From Above at:
CreateSpace

Amazon Kindle Amazon

And, you can learn more about Heather at:
http://heatherpaye.blogspot.com

That's it for this tour. Thank you Heather for being our guest; with your determination and confidence I'm sure you'll reach all your goals.

The Mystery Site winner will be announced sometime within the next several days, so stay tuned.

And, on August 10th, Stephen Tremp will be the host of VBT - Writers on the Move Viewpoint/Hot topic Segment. Stop by and find out what this month's topic will be about!

Talk to you soon,
Karen Cioffi

Saturday, August 1, 2009

Heather Paye, Author


Welcome to VBT - Writers on the Move August tour. It’s my pleasure to host the youngest member of our group, Heather Paye. At only 15-years-old, Heather is a published author. It’s refreshing to see a young lady with great determination and confidence.

Lets start with a synopsis of Heather’s book, A Gift from Above.

Celia Meyers gets everything that she wants, but when she requests a sibling and gets it, it's not all that she expected at all. Her parents ignore her, threaten to send her to a "summer camp" and the worst possible things happen to her all of the time. Finally she can't take it anymore, so she confides in her best friend Tommy Hanson, about searching for her long lost nanny Milicent Potter. But when she finds Millie, she learns some disturbing facts that she's not quite sure what to do with.

Celia visits with Tommy and discovers his true feelings towards her. At the ending Celia becomes somewhat of a hero as she saves a young boy in a car accident.

The book starts out when she is 8 and progresses through her life until she is 16.

And now for a wonderful review:

5.0 out of 5 stars A GIFT FROM ABOVE BY H. C. PAYE, April 19, 2009
By Joyce l. Paclik (bellevilleil)

IN READING THIS BOOK IT WAS VERY INTERESTING. IT WAS HARD TO PUT THIS BOOK DOWN WITHOUT PROCEEDING FURTHER. I FOUND THIS READING MATERIAL VERY CLOSE TO THE HEART READING. IT IS A BOOK I WOULD RECOMMEND FOR ALL THE GENERAL PUBLIC. THIS YOUNG WRITER I FEEL WILL GO VERY FAR IN WRITING MORE BOOKS IN THE NEAR FUTURE.

You can get your copy of A Gift From Above at:

CreateSpace

Amazon Kindle

Amazon

And, you can learn more about Heather at:
http://heatherpaye.blogspot.com

Please be sure to stop back here on Monday, August 3rd, for an interview with Heather Paye.

Also, don't forget to stop by the other members' sites and leave a comment. You could be the lucky winner of the Mystery Site Give-away!

If you're an author and want to learn more about VBT - Writers on the Move, please contact me at: karenrcfv@yahoo.com.

Talk to you soon,
Karen Cioffi